Showing posts with label Appleton Wisconsin. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Appleton Wisconsin. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Follow Wellness at our new Blog!

Hello subscribers!

We are now moving our content over to our new blog found at littlesttumorfoundation.org/blog/. There you will find more on wellness, recipes, interviews and of course, more info on us, Littlest Tumor Foundation!
Thanks for the years of reading and thoughtful insights. See you at the new blog!


Tuesday, February 5, 2013

DC Advocacy!



This week Tracy and Lilla are in Washington D.C lobbying for the NF cause. We want Washington to know about the issue of NF and its affects on and families. Both in the Fox Valley and worldwide, we at the Littlest Tumor Foundation will be advocating for the continued NF research by the government.

In the meantime, interns back in Appleton are working around the clock planning for upcoming events at the Foundation. Don’t forget on February 23, 2012, we will be holding our ski-a-little benefit and talking circle at the Bubolz Nature Reserve here in Appleton. In addition, we are preparing for the crossover from our old website to our new website. Stay tuned for more updates!

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

A New Year, New Ideas

It's a new year and at LTF, we have some new and upcoming events to mark on your calendars! As we look forward to a new year, we are always remember the ones from 2012 and a big thanks to all those who helped out! The sam-i-am race, kids-on-chemo drive, 3,000 acts of kindness and so many other events as well would have been nothing without our supporters in the Fox Valley and beyond.

We have some great family-centered events coming up in January. Join us at our NF Talking Circle: talk-a-little on January 26 from 2 p.m. to 4 p.m. at the Bubolz Nature Preserve in Appleton, Wis. Learn about the effects of NF from a family perspective. Interested in skiing for a good cause? Then ski on over to our ski-a-little that will also be held at the Bubolz Nature Preserve from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m.! See you there!

Monday, December 24, 2012

A Little Gala




We had a blast at our gala! There was food, fun, and a wonderful live band. People came from all over the Fox Valley and beyond to join in the activities. Our interns Kim and Ashley, manned the table doing the membership drive and advocacy effort. In addition, people bid on various items such as Christmas ornaments and other things at our silent auction. We also featured pictures from Project NF as well. Thanks to the Copper Rock Coffee House for making it a memorable night and donating space. If you didn't make it this year, we'll be having it next year! Happy Holidays!

Thursday, December 20, 2012

A Little Gala Tomorrow!

Don't let the winter snow keep you in. Come out in your ugly sweater for a great night of food, friends, and more! Tomorrow is the big day when we will have a little gala hosted by Littlest Tumor Foundation at the Copper Rock Coffee House's party room on College Ave. Appleton, Wisconsin from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. See you there!

Thursday, December 6, 2012

Coming up: A little gala!

This week at LTF, we have been preparing for our "a little gala" event coming up on December 21, 2012 from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. ! We've been calling and emailing people far and wide for the silent auction donations. In addition, we are posting up flyers around the Oshkosh - Fox Valley area of the event. More information about " a little gala" is posted on the community calendars as well. Check your local city to learn more. We are also pleased to say that our very own interns Beth Ann and Ashley will be on radio this coming Friday on WHBY at around 12:50 p.m.! Tune in to hear them speak about our event.  Stay tuned for more updates!

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Little Does Big Planning




We’ve had so much going on at LTF this month that we haven’t had a second to blog about what we have been doing. So far, been planning A Little Gala at the Copper Rock in Appleton, to unveil our new website and have a little fun doing so! Here’s a sneak peek at what will be happening at the gala.
During the event we will feature families speaking about NF and how it has affected their life, a silent auction featuring getaways and health packages, and a raffle giving away a signed Green Bay Packer jersey. We are excited to also be launching our new website live at the Gala along with unveiling our newest project:  Project NF, an interactive display of what it is like for a child to experience life with NF.
At the event, drinks and "little bites" are provided.  
Here at the office, we’ve been fine-tuning our events for the upcoming 2013 year – we’re even talking about our sam-i-am on Memorial Day weekend! Wow how the year is going by so quickly. In January, we will be holding our winter Talking Circle at the Bubolz Nature Preserve in Appleton and the same day, we will host Ski-a-Little a ski benefit also held at the nature preserve.  We’ll keep you updated on everything as it unfolds.

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Little 's big Welcome to Kim!




This week we welcome Kim, our new social work intern. She has been here for two weeks so far and loving it. She hails from Clintonville, Wis. and is currently studying in UW-Green Bay. Let’s learn a little more about Kim.

Hi NF community, I would like to introduce myself to everyone.  My name is Kim Burton and I am the newest intern at Littlest Tumor Foundation.  I am currently a student at UW-Green Bay working toward my masters degree in social work.  I grew up in the fox valley area and am happy to be back in the vicinity.  I left the area for about 10 years while I earned my bachelor's degree in biology from the College of St. Scholastica in Duluth, Minn.  Then I traveled to Nevada to volunteer with the Americorps. Later, I returned to Madison, Wis. after completing my assignment there and had been working hard to make a difference in that community.  I am excited to be back in the area and look forward to working with the LTF and learning and expanding my knowledge over the course of the next year.  

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

A Kind Little Reflection





Throughout August, the Littlest Tumor Foundation did 3,000 random acts of kindness to those around us. It’s been quite a trip even through the retreat. Some of us pushed carts, opened doors, baked cookies, cleaned up litter and trash and so much more. We’ve called old friends from the past and visited relatives. 
LTF even sent warm wishes to people in an assisted living center! With all these little acts, we hope to help make the Fox Cities and surrounding areas a better place to live, work, and play in. We firmly believe that everyone can give a little. What can you do to make someone's day brighter and better? What’s your little?

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

A Little Wrap-up

 Little Looks Back



Though NF month is now over, we held some GREAT events to make 2012 memorable! We really BLEW THE LID OF NF during May 2012 to let the world know about Neurofibromatosis and the great work done by the Littlest Tumor Foundation (LTF)! We kicked off the month with our awesome “Scream” picture letting the world know about Neurofibromatosis. Then we had our 24-hour up and down College Avenue in Appleton. We had some interesting interactions with the bar crowd…

Then we unveiled our insightful Human Health and Services with an insightful interview with Tracy and Sami. There was a great Derby Party here in Appleton to show support of NF research. Throughout May we papered races in the Fox Valley and Green Bay area to make people know more about our sam-i-am race.
We were on multiple news outlets in the Fox Valley area such as on three radio stations and three TV stations to let the world know about NF and our great events! We finally got to close NF month with our famous sam-i-am walk/run tumors I do not like them at Plamann Park. Here are some pictures that we can reminisce about the fun we had. Stay tuned for our next events coming up in June!

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Little goes on a run and walk for the cure!



Sam-i-am… tumors i do not like them run and walk

On Saturday May 26, 2012 the Littlest Tumor Foundation held the annual sam-i-am tumors i do not like them, run/walk for the cure. The event was held at the scenic Plamann Park located in rural Appleton. There was a fantastic turn out of over 300 people, despite the earlier rainy weather. During the event, we gave out special kids' bags. We kicked off the event with kids' fun runs to begin the race.

Thanks to InstaPrint Plus for making all the yard signs and posters, Apple Creek Orthodontics donated the dental care items in the kids’ bags, Big Apple Bagels donated the tasty bagels, Premium Waters, inc refreshed us with bottled water and the Little Gym. A special thanks to all of our interns and volunteers, as well as those at Plamann Park for letting us hold our event there. You are all so awesome! See you next year!

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Little's BIG Social Advocacy Effort


Social Advocacy Efforts
By Kimberly Klessig, Masters of Social Work Intern at the Littlest Tumor Foundation

Over the past few months, we at the Littlest Tumor Foundation have been working extremely hard advocating for support through the Federally Funded Neurofibromatosis Research Program. Through this process, it was great to be able to spread awareness at the University of Wisconsin Oshkosh and Green  Bay campus. There, we obtained signatures from students and staff members who showed their support to continue NF funding by sending a letter of support to their legislators. Other people also signed the letter in support of our cause; I reached out to family, co-workers, and classmates.
   Within a few weeks, we obtained 2,822 signatures and after sending letters of support there were four representatives that signed on! Last year, ZERO of the representatives signed and this year HALF of Wisconsin district representatives signed for their support! This was a HUGE accomplishment!
I also talked to campus organizations such as Circle K, Titan Volunteers and the Social Justice Club. All of these groups took interest in either volunteering, being educated about neurofibromatosis and/or agreeing to participate in future advocacy efforts next year for campaigning and outreaching to the larger community.
Other advocacy initiatives included my supervisor going to Washington D.C.  where she spoke with the staffers directly about neurofibromatosis. I contacted the Wisconsin legislative individuals, who signed in support for NF Funding, to have them hold a “tumors in children we do not like them" sign.
Although it took a lot of time and effort I found that…ADVOCACY WORKS!! I will continue to advocate for NF by continuing to educate and present at a variety of organizations, businesses and community. My dream is to someday have helped in making a difference for NF families!





Monday, May 14, 2012

Little Walks for 24 hours


On Friday May 4, 2012, we at the Littlest Tumor Foundation kicked off NF awareness month with our 24-hour walk up and down College Ave. in Appleton, Wis. This year we started at 10 a.m. Friday morning and walked to 10 a.m. Saturday morning. For the course of the walk we held signs that said, “tumors in children we do not like them,” we walked through the nice, sunny May weather all the way to bar time with its abundance of inebriated drinkers and through the rain that started around 2 a.m.!


The Copper Rock provided us with a place to stay for the night as well as great coffee. We even got a ½ page article in the Appleton Post-Crescent. Over the 24-hour walk, 30 people joined us as we raised awareness about NF. Even some onlookers joined us for our cause! We are dedicated to raising awareness about NF and of course, having a little fun to. We want to say THANK YOU to all our walkers and all of the people who gave donations. We want to especially thank the Copper Rock coffee house who donated coffee and a place for walkers to rest between shifts. The walk is just one of the many events that are occurring this month to raise awareness about NF. Stay tuned for more event dates and times! 

Monday, May 7, 2012

Little's Big Thank You and Big Farewell


As I look back at this year’s Kids-on-Chemo Drive, I cannot help but feel overwhelmed with gratitude. The Fox Valley community rallied behind us in a big way! Littlest Tumor Foundation found themselves supported by a complete mix of community members including: fire fighters, neighbors, college students, schools, family, friends, and the list goes on... 
This particular Kids-on-Chemo Drive was a stand-alone event for the first time ever! It was a big task but the LTF crew pulled through with A LOT of help from volunteers, community members and participants.
The stars of the night, the headshavers, did an incredible job collecting pledges. No matter how big or small the amount collected, the donations we received will go to a great cause! I think a little recognition is in order:
Our Sami Cup recipient, raising $2900, was Linda Elliot. This was the second year she shaved her head for this event and we are so happy Linda uses her incredible drive to further our cause.
Other headshavers include Paul Williams, Kevin Martinson, Adam Mohr, Justin Dull, KC Stadler, Ryan Lee, Nick Davidson, Boyd Van Landghen, Zack Akin, and Brent Debenedet. We even had a few people sneak in without giving us their names! That is how eager the community was to help! In addition to headshavers, three lovely ladies donated their hair for Locks of Love: Kali Thompson, Sara Burns, and Megan Mau. 
Another key part of our event was our volunteers. We recruited the most amazing volunteers we could find! We wanted to give a BIG thank you to all those who donated their time and efforts to making this event the great success it was. 
This event also marks the end of my internship with the Littlest Tumor Foundation. What an experience! If I had to pick the most important thing that I am taking away from this experience, it would be this: Everyone wants to be a part of something bigger than themselves, even if it’s in a little way.
I am very thankful that I could be a part of the beginning stages of a foundation surely destined for greatness.

Monday, April 23, 2012

Little Holds a BIG Event Kids-on-Chemo Drive


It’s almost here! Our Kids-on-Chemo Drive is only a few short days away on Friday April 27, 2012 from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the Paper Discovery Center in Appleton, Wis. We at the Littlest Tumor Foundation (LTF) have been working-around-the-clock to create a fun-filled event for everyone! Gather up all your friends and family as we raise awareness about children who live with the affects of chemotherapy due to neurofibromatosis (NF).
We will have fun activities for everyone. There will be games such as bag toss, paper making for all ages, faux tattoos, bubbles and a photo booth for all your pictures. There will also be a scavenger hunt for children as well as a mustache wearing event. Do you have a shout out or a wish to give to the NF community? There will be a wish wall for you to sign your thoughts and wishes.
There will be food and beverages available at our event. Stop by our juicer station to quench your thirst with one of our great recipes. Looking for a way to show your support for NF families?  You can shave your head to show solidarity with kids who have gone on chemo. You can also show your support for NF individuals and their families by getting purple hair extensions done by Aveda salon.
Don’t forget our Animation Launch that will be taking place. We’ll be unveiling our Animation Launch for the entire world to see!  So get all your friends and family members together for a night of fun and a good cause for the Kids-on-Chemo Drive at the Paper Discovery Center in Appleton!

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Little Attends an Alliance



On Wednesday March 21, 2012 two members of the Littlest Tumor Foundation attended the Mid-Day Women’s Alliance monthly convention lunch and speaker series held in Appleton, Wis. There, we also had our own booth and told the women from various professions about NF. Our table had leaflets about the Foundation and NF as well as the upcoming Kids-on-Chemo Drive on April 27 at Appleton’s Paper Discovery Center and the Sam-i-Am walk/run in May. Many of the female attendees were mothers themselves and could understand the affect that a health disorder or disease would have on a family. There were even a handful of people who knew what NF was because they had friends or were in the medical field. Not only did we inform others about our Foundation and NF, but we also got to network with other professionals whom we could do a partnership with in the future.

Monday, March 19, 2012

Little Sends Lots of Letters of Support


Since 1996, the Department of Defense’s (DOD) funding of the Neurofibromatosis Research Program (NFRP) has made important contributions helping people not only with NF but it also translates to cardiovascular, learning disabilities, war-related injuries, and other illnesses. The Littlest Tumor Foundation advocates keeping the research for NF ongoing. In order keep the DOD’s funding for the research going, the Littlest Tumor Foundation asked people throughout northeastern Wisconsin and beyond to sign a letter of support letting both the U.S. Congress and Senate that people wanted the research to continue. We went to the University of Wisconsin’s Oshkosh and Green Bay campuses collecting signatures of support and spreading the word about neurofibromatosis to students and others. Many people had not even heard of NF but when they did they were more than eager to sign the letter of support to potentially impact 175 million people. We had even met people who have NF as well!

After collecting the signatures, we sent out letters of support to our congressional representatives from the eight Wisconsin districts. We were able to meet with every congressional office and sentorial aide in both Washington D.C. and Wisconsin. When we got back in the Fox Valley region of Wisconsin, we had face-to-face appointments with Rep. Tom Petri in Fond du Lac, Rep. Reid Ribble and Tony, Senator Ron Johnson’s aide. At the meetings we discussed the importance of the DOD’s NF research and how it would impact millions of people in the US and abroad as well as raising awareness about NF. Since the sending of the letters of support and meetings, Representatives Reid Ribble, District 8, Gwen Moore, District 4, Tammy Baldwin, District 12, and Thomas Petri, District 6, have signed the letter. Thank you all who have taken a little time to sign the letter of support to continue the Neurofibromatosis Research program, our hard work has paid off thanks to you! In the end, we sent out 2,822 letters of support.

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Interview with Kelly Janke, M.S., researcher of NF children and learning issues


NF not only causes issues in terms of tumors on the body and other medical ills, but also learning issues. Please read the following interview with Department of Psychology's Kelly Janke, M.S., of the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee to learn more about learning issues and NF children.






1. Discuss some of the learning issues that you have seen with NF children in school.

Children with NF-1 are more likely to have learning difficulties than their siblings or same-age classmates who do not have NF-1. The rates of learning disabilities range from 30%-65%. Difficulties have been seen in all academic areas including word decoding (sounding out words), reading comprehension, math calculation, math problem solving, and spelling. We really see a lot of variability in the learning profiles of children with NF1.

2. I understand you’re doing a study on NF kids and their siblings, could you discuss that a bit further?

For our study, we recruit children with NF-1 and their siblings between the ages of three and six, and plan to follow them annually up until the age of 10 if possible. The goal of the study is to examine the cognitive and behavioral characteristics of NF-1 in young children to determine if we can see early signs of learning and attention problems. We are also hoping to learn more about the development of cognitive skills over time, and determine if this development differs from their siblings or other typically developing children.

3. What are some of the preliminary results you are finding?

We have found that learning and attention problems can in fact be identified in the preschool age range. There is no clear pattern to these difficulties. For example, some children have difficulty with verbal tasks (e.g., naming pictures, following directions), but do well on spatial tasks such as building with blocks. For other children, the opposite pattern is seen. Regardless of the pattern, most children with NF-1 have some difficulty in at least one area, although it may be mild. It is important that these difficulties can be identified at this young age because that allows interventions to be put in place earlier and prevents more pronounced learning and attention problems.

4. Discuss some of the medical drug studies that are being done.

Our research lab is not involved in medical drug studies, but please see http://www.ninds.nih.gov/disorders/neurofibromatosis/neurofibromatosis.htm for more information.

5. Have you found NF families having issues with the school in regards to learning issues?

The success that families have in getting services needed is variable based on the school system and the severity of difficulties the child has. NF-1 is associated with more mild difficulties compared to some other genetic disorders; however, children may qualify for an Individualized Education Program (IEP) under the Other Health Impairment category. This category is used when children have an identifiable medical condition (like NF-1), and have learning difficulties associated with the condition that require extra support in school. Children with NF-1 who are also diagnosed with ADHD may also qualify for a 504 plan. Generally, a 504 plan is used instead of an IEP when supports in the classroom alone (without additional special education supports like therapies) can help children succeed. Sometimes the learning or attention difficulties seen for children with NF-1 are a bit subtle. Parents may see them clearly, while schools see only mild differences from peers. In those cases, it can be challenging to show the school that the child needs extra supports.

6. Name some ways that parents can help their NF children who may have some learning issues.

Parents can help their children be successful by getting them a comprehensive assessment at an early age. These assessments are used to identify strengths and weaknesses so appropriate interventions can be put in place. This can help families get the services needed at school and direct parents about how to give their children extra practice with academic-related tasks at home. For example, if their children are having difficulty with early learning skills, it will be important for families to spend time playing rhyming games and reading together, and to talk about numbers and math-related concepts in everyday contexts. Parents can also help their children improve their attention and learn strategies to complete tasks by building up the amount of time their child can spend working in a structured setting.

7. Are parents reluctant to tell the teaching staff NF kids may have learning issues, if so why?

Some parents choose to not tell teaching staff about their child's NF-1 diagnosis to ensure that (s)he is not treated differently than other children. However, awareness of the diagnosis and the types of interventions that may help children with NF-1 is necessary if these children are going to get the services needed. We have found that most of the time, parents find it helpful for teachers to know that their child has NF-1.

8. Can NF kids also have attention issues such as ADD or ADHD in addition to any issues with NF, if so how often does this happen?

ADHD with or without hyperactivity is very common in the NF-1 population, with rates ranging from 30-60 %. For some, there are milder attention problems or organizational difficulties that don't reach the level for diagnosis, but nevertheless have some effect on the child's ability to do their best at school.

9. Name some of the behavioral issues that NF kids might have.

Given that attention problems are so common in NF-1, children with a diagnosis of both NF-1 and ADHD may be at risk for social difficulties. It will be important for parents to teach their children socials skills if any difficulties are noticed, and to give their children opportunities to practice these skills in social situations.

10. Explain the psychological issues that NF kids with learning issues have.

It is possible that children with NF-1 may experience anxiety or self-consciousness related to their physical symptoms and learning problems. There is not currently a lot of research looking at how common feelings of anxiety or withdrawal are in children with NF-1.

11. How and in what ways do the NF learning disorder differ and can they be confused for other disorders?

There is not yet enough research looking at whether the learning problems that children with NF-1 experience are very different from the learning problems of other children with learning disabilities but do not have NF-1. Learning problems in NF-1 are currently assessed in the same way that they would be for other children.

12. Explain some ways that NF kids with learning issues are helped. Are there special programs for them to help them succeed?

Children with NF-1 often have fine-motor difficulties and some have language difficulties. Depending on their pattern of strength and weakness, they may benefit from physical, occupational, and/or speech/language therapy services. Participation in extracurricular activities can give them opportunities to practice social skills. It may also be beneficial to attend NF-1 camps or find a local group to provide social support and show children with NF-1 that they are not alone. Local groups can be found at http://www.nfnetwork.org/


Monday, January 30, 2012

Interview with Rosie's mom


Please tell me about your family’s NF journey.
Rosie was born with café au lait spots and we didn’t think anything of it; I thought they were just birthmarks. At her six-month check up the doctor counted five spots on her body and mentioned neurofibromatosis,but said not to worry unless she had 6 or more. I took her home and found eight. I called him back and said, “now what?” the doctor then referred us to the NF Clinic at Children’s Memorial Hospital in Chicago. Rosie had her first NF clinic visit at 10 months old.

But it wasn’t until her third birthday that she was officially diagnosed with NF1;waiting for the official diagnoses and seeing the disorders indicators come out in her made for a very frustrating two years. Just after her diagnoses, she began randomly throwing up and was also very lethargic. Her pediatrician wanted to treat her for acid reflux, then it was “maybe she just can’t shake a virus”. But I knew in my gut something was really wrong, so I contacted the NF specialist and asked if he had seen this type of thing before. He wanted her in for an MRI that same day. The MRI revealed that she had an inoperable brain tumor and acquired obstructive hydrocephalus. It was the most devastating news I have ever received. We were faced with our child having brain surgery and placing a shunt in her brain to work as a drain for the excess fluid; it all happened so fast.

To date, Rosie has had thirteen surgeries, five of those brain surgeries due to shunt malfunctions. The other surgeries were due to other complications. NF caused the brain tumor, but the brain tumor’s location has caused all of Rosie’s other medical issues. For example: she has growth issues. At one point she was growing at a rate of 11 inches a year. It’s called Pituitary Gigantism. With Rosie, the growth hormone is on full-blast. She is the height of a nine-year-old despite being only seven. I remember when I had to buy her new shoes every month or so--it was crazy. I have to give her injections everyday to try and control the growth hormone. Since 2009, the growth hormone suppressant is working, but now I can see she’s going through another growth spurt, so we don’t know if it's working now, or needs another adjustment.

We’re running out of options with what can be done for her. With her it’s trial and error with treatment because of her particular diagnosis of NF; she has a very rare and complex case. We live day-to-day and try to make the best of it. She’s definitely a very special kid with what she’s going through. The toughest question she’s asked me was, “Am I gonna die?” Talk about heart wrenching, but we don’t lie to her, “everyone dies Rosie”, I can remember saying, “but most people just die when they’re older, like Nana.” She has seen too many kids loss their battles.

This year, her New Year’s resolution is to live to be 10. She is staying strong and living for the moment. She’s a positive kid; loving, caring and compassionate. She’ll comfort other kids in the hospital who are going through a hard time. No matter how long she’s here, she is leaving her mark on this world.

Rosie enjoys spreading joy, sunshine and hope every where she goes. She has spoken at two different high schools about blood drives and as a result they had a record number of kids sign up to donate blood;the impact she’s had is amazing. She’s also providing toys for family BINGO night for the Littlest Tumor Foundation’s Wellness Retreat. She’s raised over $300,000 for her causes and she’s collected thousands of toys for Rosie’s Toy Box. Rosie will talk to anybody and promoting her Toy Box (www.Research4Rosie.com) anywhere. She’s always busy doing something. Rosie has plans for the year for all the different things she wants to do. She even has a little rap that she has to introduce herself. She’s learned to take a challenging situation in her life and turn it into a positive one for everyone around her.
What type of neurofibromatosis does she have?
The short answer NF1. The long answer, Rosie has a very complex and extremely rare case; a combination of medical diagnoses. Her case has never been seen before or since her diagnosis. That’s the weird thing about NF, every case is so unique. It’s the same, but very different, the way NF manifests itself in each individual; it’s a mystery, so unpredictable.

Because Rosie has a very distinct set of syndromes, conditions and disorders that come together to make a very unusual case of NF. The “norms” that doctors have seen with other NF kids are atypical for Rosie. She is often times teaching her doctors, just how to treat her NF and brain tumor.
How is Rosie’s spirit through all this? I’ve heard she’s got a super-upbeat shiny personality.

She’s an amazing kid; very inspiring! She’s very charismatic and can strike up a conversation with almost anyone. I certainly can’t take all the credit for it, it’s God given. But it also has to do with the way we’ve handled all her medical issues, how we approach it. She knows she can trust us, that we are honest with her, we don’t dumb things down. We tell her in words she’ll understand and not sugar-coat things, she knows what she’s facing and she comes to terms with it on her level. I remember when Rosie was really little she was taking a bath and tried washing off a brown spot on her leg; I told her it was one of her NF spots. Later I had given her a brown-and-white spotted dog and Rosie said the dog had NF too. We told her from day one, that she had NF, how it made her special; that God made her that way and she should be proud of who she is, it’s apart of her, it doesn’t define her. I think that lots of kids have parents who want to hide it; I think it makes them feel ashamed, like it’s something they shouldn’t talk about or share.

Discuss how her sibling supports her.
Bella is very supportive of her sister, but it’s really tough on her too. She goes through a gamut of emotions with her sister’s conditions Being jealous of the attention Rosie gets, then feeling guilty for feeling jealous because she understands that Rosie has to have our attention at times, feeling angry because she got stuck with a sister with NF and cancer, but at the same time knowing Rosie didn't choose this life either. They share all the usual sibling rivalry like any other family. But she’s there for Rosie 100% and she chooses to be apart of everything, and she does have a choice, I think that’s important. When Rosie has a surgery, Bella is right there sitting on the hospital bed with Rosie, talking to her or watching TV with her before she has to go in. As for her personality, she’s a little quieter and isn’t nuts about the limelight, but she’s learned to speak her mind by listening and watching her little sister. Bella is a stronger person because of what she’s gone through with Rosie; she’s empathetic and very loving.
What are some ways your family has raised awareness for Rosie?
I publicly speak and raise awareness in anyway I can. We’ve educated family, friends, neighbors, other parents and classmates--our community really--about NF. At one time, some of the kids and even parents at Rosie's school worried that Rosie's NF was contagious. I’ve also learned that sometimes people don’t even know they have NF or weren’t told about it until later in life. Some pediatricians don’t even know about it. At least ours knew about the café au lait spots and had enough knowledge of its existence to refer us on to Children's. There have been nurses who have “heard about it” but have never come into contact with people who have had NF, while other nurses don’t even know about it. We take that opportunity to teach them; Rosie will lift up her shirt and say, "see" so they recognized it the next time they see it on another child We’ve even tried to get on Oprah and now we are pushing to meet Ellen DeGeneras. We have been incredibly blessed with all the people who have supported us; without all of their love and support we just wouldn't be able to reach as many people as we do. Both the girls were also adopted by teams through Friends of Jaycln Foundation. Rosie has two teams at North Central College in Naperville and Bella has one here in Palatine, the FREMD girls swimming and diving team. They love it! Rosie tells me everyday to live for the now, in the moment, to have hope, love and humor in our lives to say how you feel today and don't wait for tomorrow. She is a blessing in my life

What are some words of advice that you have for other families who have children with NF?
To be honest with their children and not make them feel different in a negative way. To help their child to be proud of who they are. They should surround themselves with knowledge, because knowledge is power; make a difference, get involved. We could sit around feeling sorry for ourselves, feel bad that NF has touched our lives or we could get off the couch and go do something about it. The best advice I can give to a parent of a child with NF is to be honest with your kids. I’ve met people who don’t know what to tell their children about NF. Get the support of others around you. Connect with other families who are going through what you are, who really "get it", who understand. There is this one family, whom I have never met in person, in Minnesota where they too have to cope with a loved one having NF. We support each other.
Rosie reminds us all to live life to the fullest. There’s this one commercial on TV and there is this woman standing on top of a mountain and Rosie said, “That’s the way we need to live mom.” – Overcoming everything and staying positive through whatever live throws at you.


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