A Kind Little Reflection

Throughout August, the Littlest Tumor Foundation did 3,000 random acts of kindness to those around us. It’s been quite a trip even through the retreat. Some of us pushed carts, opened doors, baked cookies, cleaned up litter and trash and so much more. We’ve called old friends from the past and visited relatives. 

LTF even sent warm wishes to people in an assisted living center! With all these little acts, we hope to help make the Fox Cities and surrounding areas a better place to live, work, and play in. We firmly believe that everyone can give a little. What can you do to make someone's day brighter and better? What’s your little?

Little's BIG Social Advocacy Effort

Social Advocacy Efforts

By Kimberly Klessig, Masters of Social Work Intern at the Littlest Tumor Foundation

Over the past few months, we at the Littlest Tumor Foundation have been working extremely hard advocating for support through the Federally Funded Neurofibromatosis Research Program. Through this process, it was great to be able to spread awareness at the University of Wisconsin Oshkosh and Green  Bay campus. There, we obtained signatures from students and staff members who showed their support to continue NF funding by sending a letter of support to their legislators. Other people also signed the letter in support of our cause; I reached out to family, co-workers, and classmates.

   Within a few weeks, we obtained 2,822 signatures and after sending letters of support there were four representatives that signed on! Last year, ZERO of the representatives signed and this year HALF of Wisconsin district representatives signed for their support! This was a HUGE accomplishment!

I also talked to campus organizations such as Circle K, Titan Volunteers and the Social Justice Club. All of these groups took interest in either volunteering, being educated about neurofibromatosis and/or agreeing to participate in future advocacy efforts next year for campaigning and outreaching to the larger community.

Other advocacy initiatives included my supervisor going to Washington D.C.  where she spoke with the staffers directly about neurofibromatosis. I contacted the Wisconsin legislative individuals, who signed in support for NF Funding, to have them hold a “tumors in children we do not like them" sign.

Although it took a lot of time and effort I found that…ADVOCACY WORKS!! I will continue to advocate for NF by continuing to educate and present at a variety of organizations, businesses and community. My dream is to someday have helped in making a difference for NF families!

Cancer Survivor Hollye Harrington Jacobs Shares Story

Since the time of my breast cancer diagnosis, we have talked openly with our five year-old daughter. While the personal nature of this circumstance made the conversations emotionally challenging, my professional experience as an adult and pediatric hospice nurse gave me both the tools and confidence to ensure that we gave her the developmentally appropriate answers.

Right after my treatment finished, our daughter has been revisiting a lot of the original questions as well as asking some new ones. For example, the other day while driving to school, Finally Five asked, “Do you think that your cancer will come back?” GULP.

So, I thought I’d take this opportunity to share with you her questions and our answers. These questions tend to be typical of most children affected by a cancer diagnosis.

• What is cancer?
• The body is made up of cells. Cells make our bodies work. They are so tiny that you need a microscope to see them.
• Cancer cells don’t look or act like normal cells. They don’t allow our normal, healthy cells to work properly. They can grow very fast and spread. Cancer cells may group together to form a tumor.
• There are many different types of cancer. Cancer can grow anywhere in the body.
• Finally Five wanted to know if a person could get cancer in your eyes, on your skin and in your legs.
• There is an iPad application called 3D4medical that has an image of a breast cancer cell. It is an ominous looking beast of a cell. This was really helpful for Finally Five to envision what was in my body and to then understand the sense of urgency (& drastic measures!) to get it out.

• Is cancer contagious?
• Cancer is not something that you can catch from someone else like you can a cold or the flu.
• You can be close to the person who has cancer and not worry about catching it.

• Did I cause cancer?
• No. Nothing that anyone does, says or thinks can cause cancer in someone else. Ever.
• Though they will rarely ask the question out loud, YES, children wonder whether they caused cancer. It’s sad, but true. If this question isn’t addressed, children can carry this fear (that they had some hand in causing cancer) with them into adulthood.

• Why do people get cancer?
• Most of the time, no one knows why someone gets cancer. It’s hard to not have all of the answers, but the truth is we don’t.

• What causes cancer?
• There is still a lot we don’t know about how cancer begins and what causes it?
• Sometimes cancer can be caused by some chemicals, air pollution (smoke), certain viruses and other things inside and outside the body.

• Do children get cancer?
• Yes, unfortunately children do get cancer. It is rare for children to get cancer. More adults get cancer than children.

• Who will take care of me?
• There are lots of people who will help me take care of you when I’m feeling sick. When I’m finished with my cancer treatment, I will be strong again. When I’m getting my treatment, I’ll be around as much as I possibly can and we will do different things when I’m sick, like watch Silver Lining movies and read books.
  
  Another reason to process information about cancer with parents is that children learn about cancer from other sources, e.g., school, television, the Internet, their classmates, and listening to other people talk. Some of this information is correct but a lot of it is not. Not knowing what is really going on or how to cope with information about cancer can be terrifying to a child.
  So, doesn’t it just make more sense to hear the information at home?
  Talking about cancer does not have to be traumatic. If anything, NOT talking about it is ultimately more traumatic. In the past, misplaced embarrassment about cancer has allowed misunderstandings and fears about the illness to grow. Remember: there are always professionals who are willing and able to help when parents feel overwhelmed by talking with children (Silver Lining). Engaging professional help when coping with cancer is a sign of strength and resourcefulness.
  
  

  Honesty is the first chapter of the book of wisdom.

  ~Thomas Jefferson
• Go to the following sites to learn more about Hollye:
• www.TheSilverPen.com
• hollye@thesilverpen.com
• twitter.com/hollyejacobs

Healthy miracles with My Culinary Angel Linda Ott

Q) Tell me about yourself i.e. hobbies, activities, parenting…ect.

A) My hobbies include gardening, sewing, cooking (of course!), reading, and traveling both in and out of state, biking, swimming and playing with my two daughters. I have always loved cooking and that is my first love even before I decided to cook for a living. When I’m not cooking for a client, you can usually find me in my kitchen cooking up a special treat for a bunch of teenagers or my own family.

Q) Tell me about the type of cooking services that you provide to people.

A) The mainstay of my business is cooking for people on a weekly, bi-weekly or monthly basis. Most of my current clientele reached out for me because they were struggling with a new diet i.e. diabetes, low cholesterol, low fat, etc. I also do fun cooking parties where people cook with me and then enjoy the fruits of their labors and cooking classes for children. And from time to time, I do dinner parties for small gatherings in my clients’ homes. Some of the people I cook for are overwhelmed because of they have to give up eating something or have to start eating new foods due to what a dietician said. After just a few cooking sessions, they see there is a new world--a new set of foods for them to choose from. I know I have succeeded when I receive wonderful comments about the new foods I have introduced to my clients. Sometimes I help them go through their kitchen cupboards, and help them clear out the unhealthy food choices based upon what the dietician has told them. Other times, I meet the clients at the grocery store and help them learn to shop for healthier choices. It’s just overwhelming for them to adjust to their new lifestyles, but at the end of the day, I find it very rewarding to help them.

Q) What are you areas of expertise in the cooking field and why you chose them?

A) I enjoy cooking healthy meals & surprising my clients with delicious and nutritious meal options--eating healthy doesn't have to be boring! I do a lot of research on the recipes I make. The web has truly made it simple to do this with the recipes. I have subscribed to various newsletters that help me with menu planning for specific dietary needs.

Q) Where you were you taught about this type of cooking? What motivation you to start this?

A) I learned most of my cooking skills from my first mentor at a private resort in upstate New York. William Schwartau took a chance and hired me. He taught me to make some interesting dishes such as beef tongue and ox tail soup! I went to college and learned learned to perfect my cooking and menu planning skills. After college, I went to work for Marriott. I have worked in every hotel department and have always come back to my love of food either working in restaurants or catering. After 31 years of moving around for a company and working 60-80 hours a week 365 days a year, I decided to take my skills and become self-employed. I started My Culinary Angel, LLC about a year ago.

Q) What types of dishes do you cook for others and at home?

A) I am pretty fortunate that I can follow any recipe and have success. Usually with a new recipe I’ll follow it the first time and the second time, I’ll put my own personal touch on it. At home I love to experiment--when I cook for my family I don’t often use recipes.

Q) Do you suggest people by local or homegrown food or going and buying food? Explain.

A) If you have the space and the time in your schedule, growing your own food is not only healthy, but very rewarding. I grow my own herbs during the spring and summer, and during fall and winter I move them from outdoors and into my basement; it kind of becomes a jungle. Local farmers markets and food co-ops are also a great option. When I can, I always buy organic to avoid pesticides.

Q) I understand that you cooked for the Littlest Tumor Foundation retreats, why did you choose to help them?

A) After Tracy called me to meet with her, I looked up her info on the web. She gave me a run down about cooking for her Family Wellness Retreat in Door County. I had already decided before I met with her that I would donate my time for her retreat. I have been blessed with two very healthy children. I jumped at the chance to help these families have a great weekend in a special place.

Q) How can parents get their children to integrate healthy food into their diets?

A) Healthy eating should start at birth. The more you expose them to healthy foods, the more likely they will choose to eat healthy. Remember, kids are watching what you eat as well--set the right example. There is a lot of comfort food, it’s truly a mindset of choosing and I think that if you talk to anyone in the healthcare industry there are things a person can do. I think that people aren’t going to change the way they eat, until they are ready to change their eating habits.

Q) What has worked for you to get your children to eat healthy?

A) I raised them the same. My first child was raised on a vegetarian diet until about three when she came to Wisconsin. My 15-year-old has always been an easy-to-please kind of eater. She will try anything and enjoys healthy food--not to say that she doesn't enjoy junk food but if I stock my kitchen with good food, she will choose to eat good food.
My 6-year-old, on the other hand, is my picky eater. As with most kids, her tastes are constantly changing--one week she loves carrots and the next week she won't touch them! We grow a lot of our own veggies in the summer and that seems to help to get her to try the veggies after she has worked so hard to grow them. She also loves to cook with me and here again, if she is involved, she will try it. She has her days, some days I make Mac’ n Cheese but she also eats broccoli. I sometimes have to pick my battles. During the summer she is more likely to eat vegetables because she could see how they grow. I also find that she is more willing to try new things if they are simple--not a lot of sauces or seasoning and she prefers to eat one food at a time so no casseroles for her. I find that when I cook with my daughter she is more willing to try it later.

Q) In closing, what are some tips or even advice to give to people who are trying to eat and cook healthier?

A) The web has made searching for recipes so much easier than scouting through countless cookbooks. From what I have read I have learned that fresh is best, but frozen is the best second choice. When I do my own freezing I do them in servings of four and when it’s for a family or yourself then fresh is the best idea to go.
Take baby steps; don't try to overhaul your diet overnight. Start by adding a new fruit or vegetable each week or every other day. Try practicing Meatless Monday. Whip up a new flavored smoothie each week.

The Littlest Tumor Foundation thanks Linda Ott for this interview on how people can change their and their families’ lives by using healthier and tasty cooking options. If you are interested in her services or contacting her, Ms. Ott can be reached at:

My Culinary Angel LLC
A Personal Chef Service
(920) 904-1684
lindaott@hotmail.com
or check out her website at:

My Culinary Angel

Neurofibromatosis intern

Hello all,
My name is Mardy Wiesman, a recent spring 2011 graduate from University of Wisconsin-Oshkosh. I had gone to college for a journalism degree with an emphasis in advertising and religious studies minor. I enjoy writing and my dream job someday will to be a copywriter. I have recently started at the Littlest Tumor Foundation (LTF) in late November 2011. Here, I am going to be in charge of the blog and contacting fellow bloggers on the net to join the LTF blog.
Prior to my internship here, I had no idea what neurofibromatosis (NF) was at the time. I sometimes would watch The Learning Channel (TLC) from time to time and there were a handful of specials on the disorder from time to time, although I forgot the disorder’s name over the course of time. After reading the book “Understanding Neurofibromatosis: 2nd Edition An Introduction for Patients and Parents” by James Tonsgard, Ph.D., for LTF, I was able to connect the disorder with the documentary specials I had watched years before. One of the points of both the book and the documentaries was the mentioning of café-au-lait or coffee mixed with milk-colored spots that were present on those who were afflicted with NF.
Then it came back to me. I remembered how some people would have these spots on their body and that would be all they would be afflicted with. Then I remembered how other people would get a more severe case of NF and have neurofibroma or tumors all over their bodies. Yet at the same time, NF is a common, yet relatively unheard of disorder. Here at LTF we are spreading the word on NF by means of social media such as blogging and Facebook, but also through events and campaigns. Together we can find a cure for children with NF before they reach adulthood. Join LTF today and soon we will find a treatment because, “Tumors in children, we do not like them!”

Neurofibromatosis and Green Juice

Posted on November 29, 2011 at 11:40pm

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I was moved this week when I read an article written by my friend's sister. I wanted to use my blog this week to share it with you for two main reasons.

First, I wanted to give some publicity to the rare condition of Neurofibromatosis as it is something that many of us know nothing about. Briefly, it affects 1 in 3,000 children and causes tumors to grow anywhere in the body including the brain and spine and can cause a series of other significant health issues. They range from serious skeletal abnormalities, to endocrine issues, to difficult-to-treat cancers. Much is not understood.

Tracy Wirtanen, the author of the article I read, and my friend's sister, is the mother of an 8-year-old boy, Sami, who is diagnosed with Neurofibromatosis. You can read her blog here, where she wrote as a guest on Kriss Carr's website crazysexylife.com and you can find out more information about Neurofibromatosis at the website of the foundation she created at www.littlesttumorfoundation.com

Secondly, in her article, Tracy talks about the changes she and her family have chosen to make with regard to their nutrition, both for Sami and the other members of her family. She talks about the fact that Sami drinks green juice every day, and loves it, he even asks for it! I bring this up, because it highlights something that can get forgotten when we talk about juicing. This stuff is really good for you, at a cellular level. There is a real theraputic benefit in drinking vegetable and fruit juice. Our bodies can use the nutrients provided by the juice to both prevent future tumour growth, and help the body deal heal itself.

Yes, juice is a great vehicle to boost health and vitality, and help us to clean our systems when we have overindulged, but there is a more serious side to its benefits as well. If incorporating it into your diet will allow your body to battle cancer tumours, or give your body the tools it needs to prevent them developing in the first place, then what an incredible gift you can give to yourself, and your children every day! The gift of good health!

For those of you with juicers, then try the following Green Juice recipe, packed full of antioxidants, chlorophyll and good health.

Green Delight

3 kale stalks

1/4 pineapple (not peeled)

1 apple

1/2 piece ginger (not peeled)

1 stick celery

1/2 lime (not peeled)

Pack the kale into the juicer chute, and put the apple on top, then whizz every thing through the juicer. If you want to add some extra nutrients, then add a spoonful of spirulina to the juice and blend it with some ice.

Please do click on the link to both Tracy's article and her foundations website, she is doing terrific work to educate us about this potentially devastating disease.

If nothing else, give Tracy, Sami and her family a thought or a prayer over the coming weeks, and if you are lucky enough, be thankful for you and your families good health.

Happy Juicing,

Jx

http://millburn.patch.com/blog_posts/neurofibromatosis-and-green-juice

Spork Foods Interview

Spork Foods: Jenny Engel and Heather Goldberg

Q1

You two have become famous as vegan sisters who teach how to make fun and

delicious vegan food. How did you get started on this cooking path, and why did

you start Spork Foods?

A:

Jenny: I became a vegan in college with the connections I made about the

environment and food choices. Initially, it really began out of immediate necessity,

as at that time there were not a lot of vegan food products out there and it

prompted me to begin cooking and loving it. We always really wanted a sister

business and so as we came to the same realizations about food on separate

paths, it ultimately led to Spork. We love empowering people to cook and

eat fun and easy foods and the best way we know how is through classes.

Heather: It began with a bit of empowering people to take their health into their

own hands and impact animal suffering.

Q2

What do you love about vegan cooking?

A:

Heather: A lot! It makes us feel good that we make three choices a day about

what we put in our body. It impacts the earth, animals, and our health.

Jenny: It is a fun challenge to make tasty food. I am able to be creative and make

healthier options.

Q3

What are the top three most popular dishes/recipes from your book or cooking

classes?

A:

1. Mac-n-Cheese: It was 4 years in the making. It is a go-to recipe that is a great

comfort food in fall and winter.

2. Crunchy Peanut Butter Bonbons: They make people happy.

3. Seitan Wellington: It is designed for the holidays made vegan style.

Q4

Because we focus on children, in your opinions, what are the must-have

ingredients for a healthy family vegan pantry?

A:

1. Nutritional yeast: Sprinkle on popcorn and salads for good flavor.

2. Miso makes soup fast, is immune boosting, fights infection, and there are

probiotics in it. It is a staple in our pantry.

3. Fruits and vegetables, of course!

4. Kids love quinoa with chopped veggies.

5. Tortillas are great to wrap around everything, especially butternut squash

enchiladas.

Q5

What effect has vegan eating had on your lifestyle? What are the health benefits

of being a vegan?

A:

Heather: I lost 20 pounds without trying or knowing it and have stayed at my

ideal weight. I had high cholesterol and it is now perfect.

Jenny: I have a lot of energy that comes from eating good food. It is really amazing

energy and I sleep so well at night. I also no longer feel guilt about foods I eat. It

changed our lives. We are able to live out our dream with a purpose. I feel very

lucky being able to do what we love.

Q6

What is your all-time favorite recipe you have created?

A:

Fettuccine Alfredo! We crave it on a weekly basis. It is creamy from cashews and

has a satisfying quality.

Q7

What does the future hold for Spork Foods?

A:

We are working on refining the Spork online classes. We want to get the word

out to the world. We have tons of content already with 19 classes. We want to

expand our website. We have many tricks up our sleeves.

A Journal of Cookery

THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 22, 2011

Brussel Sprouts

My kids love brussel sprouts. It is the go-to vegetable in our house, when all else fails (nutrition-wise). So I am happy they are in season! I normally just cut them in half, brown them with a bit of butter and finished them with a bit of stock till softened in a skillet (s&p, of course). But I happened upon this recipe and liked the idea of beans and brussel sprouts together. Adapted from an old Bon Appetit magazine (brussel sprouts from Farmer's Daughter http://farmersdaughter.farmvisit.com/):

Brussel Sprouts with Cannellini Beans

3/4 cup dry cannellini beans (or 1 can of cannellini)

1 cup vegetable stock

2 lbs brussel sprouts

4 cloves of garlic, chopped

2 tbsp butter (plus an additional tbsp for finishing)

1/4 cup fresh grated parmesan

Salt and pepper

Soak beans overnight...drain, rinse and cover with cold water (about 2 inches higher than the beans). Bring to a boil, reduce to simmer 1 hour (add a couple cloves of garlic for flavor...salt when there is about 15 minutes left to go). (Skip this step, if using canned.) Melt 2 tbsp butter and toss w/brussel sprouts...roast in oven at 450 for 15 minutes. In a skillet, saute garlic in remaining butter and then add stock and brussel sprouts for 5 minutes...then beans, salt, and pepper. Place in serving dish and add cheese.

(Am going to use this opportunity to plug my favorite beans,

Rancho Gordo, www.ranchogordo.com)

*Sidenote...I ended up cutting the brussel sprouts in half at the end, and would recommend cutting them in half before roasting in the oven.

Interning for a Solution

Hello!

My name is Kayla Guns and I am the Littlest Tumor’s intern. Before this summer I had no idea what Neurofibromatosis was and defiantly didn’t know how to spell it. But it didn’t take long to learn that this disorder had huge impacts on families and the people who live with it, especially children. Our motto is “tumors in children, we do not like them,” which I think sums up LTF in a nutshell. The Littlest tumor Foundation is truly inspiring, the people involved work so hard to promote awareness and generate the funds needed for researching a cure. The fundraisers and events that LTF puts on are always fun and allow for people suffering with NF a chance to forget their worries and spend a day with their families. Also I am impressed with the determination of LTF to become a national even global presence in the NF community. As a small non-profit, I didn’t think LTF had much of a voice outside of the Fox Cities but as the summer progresses I’ve learned that LTF is already known nationally and we’ve even had a sponsored event in Africa! I am excited to continue working with LTF this summer and see what else we can accomplish for NF. Here at LTF we are asking people to give a little, because every little bit helps. “What’s your little?”

Americorps Blogs

My Soulution

It is hard to believe that the beginning of August is right around the corner already at the Littlest Tumor Foundation. My journey at the foundation thus far, has been a remarkable experience. Too often individuals disregard lessons learned along their life path. With the pull of the universe embedded in technology and the business of schedules, people rarely take the time to give a ‘little’, reflect a ‘little’, laugh a ‘little’ or volunteer a ‘little’. In finding a solution, I have learned that it takes a ‘little’ heart and soul.

Over these past summer months, putting my soul into creating awareness, promoting wellness, and developing research, has made the solution come alive in my heart. Being able to work with children who have Neurofibromatosis has been extremely rewarding. Courage and bravery in their smiles, and positive energy it their attitudes, has taught me that the fight is always worth it. Now, more than ever, I strive to be a part of the solution. Creating awareness has been a major part of my solution, as well as pushing myself to eat my greens and practice moments of wellness. It is the ‘little’ things that can go a long way and create a big impact. I often ask myself, “what is my little?” What can I personally do today to make a difference tomorrow? When I start asking myself these ‘little’ questions, the solution becomes achievable!

Emily Wagner

23 Year Old Female, Single and Seeking a Solution

This week wraps up out 30-day Awareness Campaign and the theme is Solution. According to Dictionary.com, there are three definitions of a solution.

1. The act of solving a problem, question, etc.: The situation is approaching solution.

2. The state of being solved: a problem capable of solution.

3. A particular instance or method of solving; an explanation or answer: The solution is as good as any other.

So what I have been doing to be a part of the solution? Well the answer is not simple because the problem of NF has not yet been solved but I feel my work and dedication to the cause and the Littlest Tumor Foundation have aided in the solution.

Being a part of the solution means stepping outside of one’s comfort zone, doing something daring and exciting, reading and research, creating activities and events for awareness raising, having an open mind and devotion. A solution is not always easy to come by but there are so many things to learn along the way.

During my short time with the Littlest Tumor Foundation, I have worked daily with Emily, the best coworker one could ask for. I have also learned a great deal and have been part of a multitude of work for the purpose of finding a solution, including: an expanded knowledge of social media, how to organize an entirely free three day retreat, created a month long campaign, have been featured on the radio and in the newspaper, have met celebrities who are also dedicated to finding a solution for those charities they support, written countless letters to media outlets including news broadcasting stations, magazines and newspapers, created a quarterly newsletter for our foundation and attended community meetings and events. Emily and I have worked tirelessly to be part of the solution and continue to give our talents, skills and vigorous passion to find that solution.

Please join us to keep the movement going. You can do so by writing your politicians, getting involved in an organization such as the Littlest Tumor Foundation, attending events and benefits put on for NF and for children, just taking some time to read up on the most recent research and scientific/medical breakthroughs, etc. Do what you’re able. Anything will do. We are happy to have anyone and everyone on board for the solution.

“The important thing about a problem is not its solution, but the strength we gain in finding the solution” --Unknown

Yours truly, Bailey Murph

Kristi Hopkins NF author blogs for us!!

Reason I wrote the book.


For years I lived my life hiding and denying the symptoms of Neurofibromatosis. When a doctor finally "officially" diagnosed me, in 2007, hiding was no longer an option.


It was time to face NF head on! At first facing NF was met with anger and frustration and I was becoming just like my mother.


One day, after a particularly negative blog post, my husband asked me a question, that changed my perspective forever. "Kris, I love you, and that's a great blog post....But, what if you change the way you look at NF....Why not start inspiring people to do more than just survive NF?"


That day, 'Thriving with NF' was born, and became the start of a life-long process, that I try to live up to every single day.


After a year of sharing my stories on my blog, my husband and I talked about how neat it would be, if we turned all those stories, into a book.


We worked for a year. It wasn't easy to understand that people would really want to read about my life. I kept fighting my husband and he fought back...


I never realized how many stories I had. I never realized that my attitude switch would go on to touch so many people.


Now "Thriving with NF" has become a way of life. A bar that is set, that I try to reach every single day. Some days I do better than others, but the important thing is, is that I try!

Bailey NF young teen blogs for us!!!

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  When I found out that I had a tumor that needed chemotherapy, I felt like I was in a dream. "This isn't happening to me", I thought.
  
  I saw the shock in my mother's eyes, then I realized how serious it was.
  
  This wasn't just a simple NF tumor. This wasn't something to just watch. This was something that needed treatment, FAST!
  
  I honestly felt like they were talking about some other kid. I mean, I didn't have any symptoms. I didn't "feel" like I had a tumor in my head.
  
  Ever since my mom was diagnosed with NF, I have watched her attitude and how she deals with all this stuff. I made up my mind that I wanted to be exactly like her.
  
  Sure, I am scared...But I have decided to live my life the best I can. And to make all my decisions be ones that show someone who is looking at the bright side of things.
  
  Chemo isn't easy, Life isn't easy, but a better attitude makes it much MUCH better.
  
  I am glad to be like my mom. She helps so many people realize that living with NF doesn't have to be so horrible. I hope that I can do that for people too.
  
  Bailey Archer

Oh Veggies!!

Oh veggies!

Today marks the end of the 7-Day Vegetarian Challenge. At first I was unsure if I’d be able to pull through but I did it. I never realized how often I ate meat with my meals. I am generally not a big red meat eater, but chicken is one of my staple foods. This week, my staple became trail mix, not a bad substitute but definitely not chicken.

So how did I do it? The internet (and the support of my roommate)! In my search for delicious and nutritious foods, I visited a ton of websites, including: FoodNetwork.com, food.com, recipes.com, etc. Needless to say, the internet was ultimately my savior. Throughout the week, I called myself an ovo-lacto vegetarian, meaning I did not cut out eggs or milk. I think that would have been too much of shock to my system because, believe me, I felt different. I’ll list some of my symptoms I experience below.

Symptoms of vegetarianism:

No energy: I had heard that this was possible and it is completely true. Your body will initially have a rough time adjusting and you may feel fatigued, but it’s supposed to get better after a week or two. For this reason, I chose trail mix to munch on. In order to get through this slump, you have to find something to substitute for the lack of protein and iron that you’d normally get with meat.

Stress: What do I make? If I make this or that am I still following the rules? These were questions I was bombarded with daily, but was able to overcome. Again, it was the internet that saved me, and the help of a vegetarian friend that has to work around a meat-eating spouse. I learned to really use my resources to lessen the stress of going vegetarian.

No time: The time issue was something I had to combat every day. I’m on the go every second of the day and found that I really had to think about what I was going to eat before I headed out in the morning. Being vegetarian takes a little extra time management in the beginning, but its doable.

Crankiness: I was totally cranky this week. I had the urge to just go pick something up at the end of a long day of work and found that I couldn’t, or if I did I had to be very selective and conscious about what I was choosing. The crankiness was of course accompanied by the lack of energy and stress but was something that can also managed with the proper planning.

Overall, the week was difficult and at this point, I have realized I am in no way ready to be a full-fledged vegetarian. Despite the difficulties of the week, it helped me to realize what I do put into my body and the ability to take steps toward a healthier me. What I do know, is that I will attempt to eat less meat in the future. I’m thinking I’m going to go towards the poultry route. I’ve learned a lot from this experience and although I cannot manage a strictly vegetarian diet at this point, I vow to make steps to lessen my meat and processed food intake.

Yours truly, Bailey

Meditation Mindfulness and Diagnosis

Meditation methods have existed within every faith tradition and outside of faith traditions as a practical means to connect to inner strengths and to a bigger picture of life. As the people at the Littlest Tumor Foundation know very well through their impressive work, going through a loved one’s diagnosis, treatment, the family’s feelings of isolation and uncertainty and all manner of challenges, is a time when connection to resiliency, inner resourcefulness, and to one another is of vital importance.

I started practicing meditation in 1971 to try to enhance just those connections. The practices I learned, and now teach around the world, are based on: deepening concentration, so we don’t feel so scattered and fragmented and can be more in the moment instead of in the past or in future projections; strengthening mindfulness, so we have greater awareness and clarity about our experience; and increasing compassion towards ourselves and others, so that we have a new way of viewing ourselves and one another.

Here’s a way to begin, if you are moved to try:

Basic beginning Meditation Instruction

1) Start with just fifteen or twenty minutes, once or twice a day. While a relatively quiet place is useful for settling our minds down, there is no way to completely control our environment. Try to reach agreement with your family members or others who may disturb you while meditating that this is your time and to please wait until you are done. However, interruptions will happen. Don't let them upset you or throw you off balance.

2) Meditation begins with the belief that each of us has the capacity to understand ourselves more fully, to care more deeply both for ourselves and for others. It works to free us of habitual reactions that cause us great unhappiness, such as harsh self-judgment, and to develop greater wisdom and compassion. Meditation gives anybody who pursues it an opportunity to look within for a sense of abundance, depth and connection to life.

2) Sit in any position that is comfortable to you, chairs are fine, just try to sit upright. Your arms can be anywhere that feel natural to you. You can sit with either your eyes open or closed…you can experiment with both. If your eyes are open, instead of looking around, find a spot in front of you and rest your gaze. If at any given time you can’t do sitting practice you can lie down, or do walking meditation. If you have a physical limitation and can’t walk, e.g. you are in a wheelchair, you can do wheeling meditation. There also is no need for special paraphernalia. Feel free to change position when you need to.

3) Start by just feeling your breath as it enters and leaves your nostrils. You don’t need to adjust the breath to make it deeper or finer: simply feel it as it is and as it changes. Rest your attention lightly on these sensations. If images or sounds or emotions or other sensations in the body arise, and you can still be aware of the breath, let these other experiences flow on by -- you don’t have to follow them, or fight them.

4) Sometimes these experiences are much stronger than our awareness of the breath, and we realize perhaps only after some time that we have been distracted. Know that your mind WILL wander, just notice where it went and then gently bring it back to the breath -- every time, over and over. You will think and feel many things, both emotionally and physically, while you meditate. It is all ok. Just quietly bring yourself back to the breath.

5). It is ok if you fall asleep at first. Make sure you get enough sleep at night if you can, and avoid meditating during your lowest-energy times of the day (right after meals, etc.). Eventually, the urge to sleep will pass.

6) If you don't feel at ease meditating alone, find a meditation group that you feel comfortable with. Friends and family members may want to practice with you, which can be very supportive if everyone has the same understanding about the time frame involved.

7) Above all, have patience with and compassion for yourself. Each of us faces our own challenges in meditation, but the rewards are well worth it if we are kind to ourselves and keep on going!

This Littles Light of Mine

This Little Light of Mine

Greetings, my name is Sue Ansari. I am a registered nurse, laughter yoga teacher, raw food chef, wellness coach, holistic health counselor and a cancer survivor. Yes, it is so important when dealing with this diagnosis to do and be all things healthy – stay away from all processed foods, heap on the organic fresh fruits and veggies, drink plenty of water, exercise, but how often has your doc given you a script for laughter?

Laughter effortlessly accomplishes deep breathing, increases endorphin production, decreases pain, decreases stress and simply makes the “medicine” of the day go down so much easier. You don’t need to laugh for a reason, just throw your head back and laugh for NO reason….the benefits will be the same and you will feel better, promise!

I appreciate the Littlest Tumor Foundation asking me to contribute to their wellness blog and offer my hope and support for the work they are doing. I would like to share with you something I wrote recently for another blog that will hopefully help you understand the healing power of laughter.

“A couple of days ago, I received an email from a self-help cancer site. It was well-written, well-intended, but it seemed to be missing something. The article was about restoring joy that often in a post-cancer state can be very challenging.

It suggested that one concentrate and focus on those many positive items we all have in our lives - home, family, friends, the beauty of Nature, music, etc. - and thus, be filled with feelings of joy. At least for me, the joy I feel thinking those thoughts doesn't stick with me for long.

Luckily, I have been bitten with an infectious Indian laughter bug known as the "HohoHaha Syndrome" which can literally move you from motion to emotion. What does this mean in less scientific terms? Hmmmmmm, let me see, how can I explain?

There are many beautiful candles in my home - not only are they fragrant, but several are also embedded with a variety of gorgeous flowers. I can look at them, appreciate them, but only when I light them, do I receive the FULL benefit of their candle beings.

All of my life, I have been surrounded not only with beauty, but also with wonderful friends and family who have added so much to my life; however, my "fire" needed to be lit before my true brilliance and joy could be realized. For me, being infected with the "laughter bug" accomplished that.

Laughter has forced me to tell my body to laugh (the motion) which eventually, over a protracted period of time, fired up my inner candle, thus releasing my joy (the emotion). The strange thing about this syndrome is that it infects in a powerful, insidious way. I must tell you, during the entire incubation period, my personal life was a huge mess - there was very little to laugh about, let alone feel happy about; however, as the “laughter bug" kept biting me, I laughed....and laughed....and laughed. The more I laughed, the better I felt and the better I felt, the more I laughed! What a fantastic, positive vicious cycle!

The syndrome often leaves me feeling light-hearted, as well as, occasionally, a bit light-headed. I sleep deeper, have a much more laid-back attitude about life in general, often have an inexplicable desire to laugh out loud for absolutely NO reason and often do so while driving. I feel upbeat most of the time and rarely succumb to severe bouts of depression as was the case prior to my “infection”.

Now that my inner candle is burning brightly, “this little light of mine” allows me to see vividly the beauty all around me and it lights my way, so that I can share that joy with others. Some days I feel I would like to wrap my arms around the entire world and give it a good squeeze! Amazing what an “infection” such as this can do to a mind and body. Simply tell your body what to do and your mind will have no problem following!

O what is laughter?

What is this precious love and laughter

Budding in our Hearts?

It is the glorious sound

Of a soul waking up!

- Hafiz...

Sue Ansari RN and Certified Laughter Yoga Teacher was among the very first certified Laughter Yoga teachers in the US, training in 2005 with Dr. Madan Kataria, the founder of Laughter Yoga, in Interlaken, Switzerland. He has twice recognized her as a “Laughter Ambassador” for her outstanding contribution to the Laughter Yoga movement. A cancer survivor herself, Sue is actively engaged locally and globally in presenting cancer/wellness retreats with Laughter Yoga at its heart. Presently, she is a part of the International Laughter Yoga team, assisting Dr. Kataria with his work and writing. Locally, she is on a mission to bring more laughter to the ailing city of Detroit, as well as to the medical community at large.

Laughter Yoga is a unique concept based on the principle of “acting happiness” – tell your body what to do and your mind will follow! Through a series of simple exercises and breathing techniques, Laughter Yoga will unlock the door of your heart and soul, thus releasing your Inner Joy, allowing you to re-acquaint yourself with the carefree, light-hearted child you once were.

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